Mistress Speaks

For those of you wanting to know a little more about me, I'm an experienced professional Dominatrix/Mistress with 10 years experience working within the fetish/BDSM/adult industry.

I started modelling and acting over 10 years ago. I moved into doing fetish work very soon after and naturally progressed into doing Dom work and still enjoy every minute of it!

Prior to my experiences within this industry and lifestyle - I from an early age was able to mentally control and manipulate males into doing what I wanted. I've always had male friends eager to please or run errands for me. I often preferred the company of males to insecure bitchy girls! They [males] were far more interesting and exciting too. I enjoyed secretly toying with the minds of the opposite sex - it made me feel good as well as being highly amusing at times!!

For those of the opposite sex that really upset me at school a swift kick in the grion was never far away! I would always stand in amazement at the way they curled up into little balls at my feet and made such a fuss if not crying their eyes out - well it certainly taught them not to upset me in future :) And so the lesson of respect began. I can even remember kicking guys in the nuts as far back as primary school for things like pulling my hair!! At secondary school it seemed more appropriate to "peanut" the boys with their school ties - basically pulling them so hard if they pissed me off that it would near on strangle them but leave the knot in the tie so tightly done up they'd spend the rest of the lesson trying to get out of it - such fun lol.

I've always been a fiesty little chick - which then developed into being strong independent woman as I grew older. In my personal relationships in my adult life I think this is what has attracted the opposite sex to me in the first instance - but caused friction further down the line when I certainly wouldn't succumb to the "dominant male species" and be controlled or stay at home and "know my place" so to speak. Likewise earning more financially would often dent the pride of my male counterparts.

Whilst I believe balance and mutual respect and understanding is important in any relationships, I'm certainly not going to do things solely on others terms (male or female) when I have my own points of view as well as needs and requirements - I do like to be in control or at the very least share responsibilities in any relationships. Thus said I am more than happy to take the lead, but treating others as you would wish to be treated despite my dominant persona is something I believe to be important always something I consider and aim to achieve with people.

I think therefore we've established that I'm naturally a dominant person, although (hopefully you'll agree) not obnoxious and pushy, unless I need to be. Never a nice character trait! I believe dominance comes in many forms. Whilst I am approachable, polite, amenable, well spoken and friendly. I am in no way a push over or someone that can be taken advantage of just because I don't appear to be loud and proud.

Despite being relatively laid back, liberal & open minded with many areas of life - I am still very strict when it matters during sessions and have a very traditional, conservative approach to life generally and have very high standards to meet in many areas of life. Respect for people and things around you being top of my list! My sessions are no exception to this rule!

I don't suffer fools gladly and take no nonsense from ANYBODY! In or out of sessions.

I think on occasion people have misinterpreted me to be weaker than others because I'm not brash and outspoken! It has on occasion been assumed because I do not push myself forward or above others, I do not have anything to contribute - this is far from the case. Do not be fooled by my appearance or demeanor. I'm full of surprises so be warned. I am always one step ahead!! A lot goes on inside my mind rather than yabbering away like an idiot in order to "appear" dominant and in control yet not really saying anything worthwhile. "Quality not quantity" Is another motto of mine! That's not to say I don't have a lot to talk about! I am often described as "opinionated"!

Communication is not always about talking!! You do not learn from talking alone - listening, understanding and observing are equally as important in learning and communicating with others - actions speak louder than words. You have 2 ears and 1 mouth use them proportionately!

Likewise do not assume you know me from looking at this website nor meeting me for a brief encounter over my knee!! I have many hidden depths and talents to discover - many of which a lifetime would be too short to uncover! I will only let you into the secret world within my mind should I deem you worthy and capable enough!

I am neither egoist or egotist (although this is a space to talk about myself so I shall do just that!!). I do not seek or need worship or control in order for me to "feel good" - I am comfortable with who and what I am with or without my subs and slaves. That is not to say I do not enjoy it or my time spent with them! It is power over men that makes me feel good and drives my desires!! Mentally, physically or both. I can achieve this both in and out of sessions.

I love what I do and feel that my sessions are a time to express that in a controlled fantasy environment. I can accomplish what might not be acceptable in everyday life with willing participants. What you see is what you get. I am not an act - unless I'm unleashing my wild desires and excitement through roleplay with you. Oh how I wish I were able to carry out some of this behaviour in the real world lol.

There is never a dull moment during my sessions and there is certainly no better feeling than having a man fall to my feet in submission, if he doesn't by his own free will then he soon will because of my powerful arm, thighs, or kicks when standing before me :) or my intense & painful words that leave you feeling mentally beaten, abused and humiliated without the need for physical pain.

Dominance is a control over something, you don't have to be aggressive, swear & shout to achieve that. I don't need to threaten in order to get co-operation - unless that is a requirement in which case I enjoy it. I do not need you to fear me in order to get you to comply with my rules. My unique approach in dominating men is one to be experienced. Although after spending just a short time with me you will love me, fear me, worship me, respect me, want to please me, yearn for me, submit to me and more.

My very presence and everything about me from my guise, manner & characteristics, softly spoken voice, beautiful scent of perfume and my delicate but dangerous touch will have you enchanted & wanting to submit to me and cater for my every whim, from the first second you see me - I will melt you heart and turn your brain to jelly! You will become weak and I will be implanted within your mind and heart forever! Oh how I love first encounters, nervous beyond belief and quivering voices....hehehe.

You will experience every emotion from love, fear, hate and adoration when you are with me! You will want to fall to your knees and worship me from here on in! Never failing to keep me happy.

I'm not your 'usual' Dominatrix or Mistress!!! I'm more than just a woman in PVC branding a whip. Domination is far more than that. The psychological aspects of domination run far deeper than pain or marks to your body! Believe me I will be leaving you mentally scarred although not necessarily in a negative way!

I love dressing up & having fun and if you love powerful, sexy women you've most definitely come to the right place!

I am fun, sexy, interesting, intelligent and have a great sense of humor. I love to tease and can be cruel - in many ways!

There is always room to improve, learn, understand and progress in life. I don't believe I am nor ever will be "the best". If you think you have reached your goal - it is unlikely you will ever improve yourself as a person or your skills or knowledge in my opinion. There is so much more I wish to fulfil with my goals as a Mistress and life in general! I have dreams and fantasies too!

I'm not easily shocked! I treat my subs, slaves, fetishists & kinksters as individuals and cater for your needs specifically. I am happy to work with the experienced, inexperienced, complete newcomers and anything in between provided you are genuine about coming to see me and your interest in femdom.

I'm open minded & like to listen & build relationships with my clients no matter what the reason for your visit. I believe this is an important factor in getting the best possible experiences for us both!! I like to enjoy my sessions as much as you. I don't enjoy them if I think you aren't having fun - even if that fun is leaving you in pleasurable pain!

I don't like going through the motions - I may be a professional and earn a living from doing this, but I take this very seriously indeed. If I don't like something I don't do it for the sake of earning money! I only do what I enjoy doing!! Although I do not appreciate timewasters in the slightest - I am always happy to discuss genuine concerns or ways of improving our enjoyment. But you will only get one chance to impress me, one chance to fulfill my happiness and expectations. Fail or let me down in anyway and you will not be invited back into my wicked little world. I will not tolerate sub-standard behaviour.

I enjoy using men for my pleasures, amusement & entertainment. I love being pampered also.

I can be considerate & sensual at times but also VERY cruel, merciless & have a real sadistic streak!! I love feeling in control & dominating men in all manner of ways.

I demand respect at all times whilst you engage with me pre, during & post sessions. Otherwise you will simply be ignored! I have no time for childish nonsense!

I'm a woman in complete control & know exactly what I want & always get it, I don't stop until I do. I am not for the faint hearted. You will not forget me in a hurry and most certainly be back for more!

Mistress Dawn xxx

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